Jessica Alba famously recovered her figure by using several corsets to squeeze her hips and belly back
into their pre-baby position years ago. For centuries, women before her, in various cultures all over the world, have tried similar belly binding or postpartum wrapping techniques to help the recovery process after childbirth.
But does it really work? After my firstborn left me with a permanent pregnancy
pooch, I decided I had to give it a try.
True story: My
husband and I decided to have a second baby primarily because I wanted to try
A few months after I had my first son, the boss at our
favorite pho restaurant asked me why I didn't bind my belly (which somehow had
missed the memo that we were no longer five months pregnant). Now, before you go up in flames about boundaries, you should
know that we are close! So close they even
delivered pho to the delivery room.
The truth is that I had never thought about binding. My
mother, a ballerina in her younger days, bounced back from all three children
in a flash. Since I was an avid cyclist and mountain climber, I assumed my body
would do the same. Only it didn't, and after months of diastasis recti (DR) rehab,
I still looked pregnant.
So I decided to do the reasonable thing: I had another
baby so I could fix my stomach without surgery.
How does belly
The hormone relaxin increases significantly during pregnancy to relax the intrauterine ligaments and cervix and allow our bodies to stretch and loosen things up for childbirth. The thinking goes: Belly binding and hip
binding takes advantage of this softened state and pushes the hips and the
separated abdomen back together as the body firms up. Specialists like Gentle Beginnings in the Netherlands recommend
belly binding 24/7 for two months starting on five days postpartum, or starting at six
weeks postpartum for C-sections, though time frames can vary. Wear the bind as long as it's comfortable.
Remember, belly binding is mainly touted to help prevent DR, when the large abdominal muscles separate and keep moms looking pregnant even when they are not. It can't magically make your fat disappear (to my disappointment) and is not a substitute for healthy eating and exercise.
My stomach was flatter than it had
been in years. Success! Or so I thought …
What kind of bind is best?
Before I even got pregnant, I purchased
several binding items: a bengkung (the traditional knotted Malaysian belly wrap),
several corsets and Velcro postpartum wraps.
At five days postpartum, I started by
layering a few of these hook-and-loop stomach wraps (always wear a tank underneath to prevent chafing) over my abdomen and hips, making sure to
push the side of my stomach together, rather than pulling them apart or pushing
my stomach flat. This is supposed to re-position the muscles that have been
stretched apart by pregnancy.
I chose this method first because I was
too tired to deal with the bengkung, which had to be rebound frequently as it
slipped up my hips and into my waist. The Velcro wraps were easy to use and
re-position, but the wraps did wear out quickly, causing the boning to jut
out and the material to scrunch up around my waist. (There are options without boning, like these waist trimmers, but they tend to bunch up when you bend over, which is pretty much all that moms do.)
A friend had recommended a corset, but
unfortunately the one I purchased didn't have a bottom opening. Between a
weakened pelvic floor and my extra pounds, I just couldn’t get it off in time
when I had to go pee.
A few short days after wrapping my
stomach, the compliments started rolling in. My stomach was flatter than it had
been in years. Success! Or so I thought …
Wrapping can break your vagina
OK, to be fair, it was probably giving
birth to a baby whose is in the 99th percentile with one push (no
epidural was available and I was SO DONE with labor) that caused my weakened
pelvic floor, but binding prevented it from healing. Every time I put on the
wrap, my postpartum bleeding would increase and it felt like something was pushing
through my vagina.
I consulted with my OB, my midwife and
my Chinese lactation consultant (who trained as a maternity nurse back home, where belly binding is common),
and it turns out I had a pelvic organ prolapse, wherein pelvic organs (like the
bladder) get pushed against the wall of the vagina because the pelvic muscle is
too weak. The bind squeezed all of my organs in, which pushed my
bladder down, causing the discomfort. The only solution: Stop binding and start
Crushed, I watched as my stomach began
to spread again. I started doing Kegels and doing DR exercises for a few weeks, and once my
pelvic floor was strong enough, I slowly began binding again.
Does binding work later?
You can belly bind later in your
postpartum recovery, but sadly, it's not as effective. Once I got the all-clear
from my OB, I began binding again and did see good results, but not the amazing
results that I saw in those first days.
Two months postpartum, I started wearing
my corset and noticed that my stomach was getting flatter, though more like
"just starting to show" flatter than "baby? what baby?" flatter.
Curious to know if this was normal, I
checked with the women in my Chinese moms WeChat group. I got a resounding yes.
Some lamented having been too lazy, while others proudly showed off their
gorgeous flat tummies and encouraged others to bind as soon as humanly
possible. Others said that while their core felt stronger, they were still
carrying their baby weight, so only time would tell.
What else should you
I was convinced I had blood clots when I couldn't breathe,
but it turned out to be a combination of binding, anxiety and allergies. I
stopped binding at night, I used my Neti pot and the situation resolved.
When wrapping, you want to pay close attention to how you
feel. The postpartum weeks are tough on the body; conditions like
pre-eclampsia, blood clots and circulation problems can appear for months after
birth. If you're at high risk for any of those conditions and it doesn’t feel right, stop and see your doctor. Pay attention to
your breathing, watch out for dizziness and report any headaches. The key with belly binding is it should never be painful.
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