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January 21, our nation will observe Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day—or
MLK Day. This holiday commemorates the
life of the Southern minister, Nobel laureate and key leader of our nation’s
civil rights movement. As a parent of a
small child, you may be at a loss as to how to introduce King’s legacy to your
daughter or son. You may be wondering, “Is this relevant?” “How much should I say?”
or “How should I discuss a topic such as race relations or the civil rights movement?” with a preschool or school-age
child. The discussion might seem “too
heavy” for a young child to understand.
If your child asks about differences in skin color, you can acknowledge those differences while underscoring the value of diversity.
how come their skin isn’t like mine?” Many years ago, our 3-year-old daughter asked this question after playing
with children from different racial backgrounds. Your child’s curiosity can be an opening to
begin conversations that will shape their perceptions about race, ethnicity and culture. By the age of 2 or 3 years
old, children have already become aware of physical differences. At that age, however, they will not make the
connection that these differences are associated with race.
knowledge about their own personal ethnic identity and heritage continues to
develop throughout adolescence. How you
respond to questions about physical differences in others fosters this
development. If your child asks about
differences in skin color, you can acknowledge those differences while underscoring
the value of diversity. “You are right. We all have skin that is different—isn’t that great?”
Affirming a 3-year-old’s observation and
emphasizing the importance of those differences underscores why
diversity is important. Sharing with
your children the many contributions of women and men from diverse backgrounds
throughout the year and on special holidays such as this one also illustrates
this point. The family unit serves as an
invaluable source of information and guidance while a child is navigating this
path and learning about her own family’s history and people from other racial
and cultural backgrounds.
child’s exposure to MLK Day through school, day care, the neighborhood or even
in the media may prompt questions from him. When kids learn more from sources outside your home, they will surely
bring back this newfound knowledge, and they will be eager to share. Here
are key points to emphasize when talking with young children about Dr. King’s
Dr. King was a minister from Atlanta, Ga.
Dr. King had a “Dream” that life would be fair for all people and that all people could achieve their dreams.
Dr. King won a famous and important prize for being a peacemaker (Nobel Prize).
older children, you could emphasize these points:
President Ronald Reagan signed a law to establish a holiday to recognize King’s work in 1983.
Share his famous 1963 “I Have a Dream” speech. In that speech, Dr. King spoke not only as a leader, but also as a parent: “I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.”
Dr. Kingtalked about equality and freedom for all people, and he promoted the use of nonviolence to achieve these goals, which extend beyond our nation and abroad.
In 1994, the U.S. Congress designated Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as a day of national community service. You and your family may choose to identify a local community service project held on MLK Day.
year, communities, families and individuals across the country will use this
day to remember Dr. King. They will
celebrate what the movement meant for all Americans in a variety of ways. Mothers and families can seize this holiday
as an opportunity to either introduce Dr. King and his Dream to a world
where diversity is embraced and valued, or to continue the dialogue that has
are ways for you to expose your child to Dr. King’s Dream on MLK Day and
throughout the year:
Luther King, Jr. parades in your community
* Books that are age-appropriate about Martin
Luther King, Jr.’s life: The Story of
Martin Luther King Jr. by Johnny Ray Moore; Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, by
Reagan Miller; A Picture Book of Martin Luther King, Jr. by David A. Adler;
Happy Birthday, Martin Luther King by Jean Marzollo, J. Pinkney