One sign of a healthy relationship is when a couple approaches things as a team. The good times, the bad times, household tasks, work stressors and family stressors are all approached with an "us" mentality. Pregnancy is no different. Only one partner is pregnant, but the more each tries to make the pregnancy a joint experience, the more unity and enjoyment both will feel. For example, read a pregnancy book or two together. Take turns reading aloud to each other and talking about what you read. If you're pregnant, let your partner know you want him/her involved. If you're not pregnant, let your pregnant partner know you want to experience it all together.