Benedikt's belief is that if
every single person put every single child into public school, our school
system would have to improve. She
believes parents who opt out of public school in favor of private school are selfish, as they would otherwise be the type of people who could personally and
financially help fix the public school system (which by her own admission
wouldn’t be fixable for generations to come even if every single “selfish
private school parent” sent her kids to public school).
A product of the public school system, Benedikt herself cops
to a “mediocre” education. She confesses
to being “just fine” having “survived” her education. But she assumes that those of us who want
more than an education that is "just fine" for our children are selfish.
I’ve chosen to take my children’s education into my own hands.
Truth be told, I would love nothing more than to avoid spending
what will be (gasp!) $50,000 a year to educate my two children
in a more than “just fine” fashion. Here
in Los Angeles, our public school system isn’t just flailing, it’s on life
support. My own local public school is
rated one of the best in the city; yet sports, music, dance or drama are absent as part of the
regular curriculum. Additionally, the school has no janitorial services. But
according to Ms. Benedikt, I’m selfish for wanting more than that for my two
In a perfect world, every American would have an opportunity
to a quality public education. But this
isn’t a perfect world, and our school system is hardly sufficient. And I would, without question, give whatever
I’m paying in private school tuition to the public school system if I had any
confidence that our government, voters and teacher's unions had as much concern
for my children’s education as I do. But
I have no proof of that, so I’ve chosen to take my children’s education into my
The decision to send one’s child to private school doesn’t
come easily, despite what Alison Benedikt would have you think. My husband and I
debated the pros and cons at length. We
were realistic about what sacrifices we’d make in order to comfortably take on
the tuition. We looked at public schools, charters, magnets and private schools, and we ultimately came to the hardest decision, not the easiest. There is nothing
easy about sending one’s child to private school, and there is nothing selfish
about the decision to give your kids more than an education that is "just fine."
I don’t know a person sending their kids to private school
who made that choice for any other reason than a deep passion for their kid’s
education. It’s interesting to me that Benedikt finds that selfish. Personally, I think it’s selfish to send your kids to a broken public
school if you can afford otherwise. But, then again, what do I know? I’m just a morally corrupt parent of a child going
to private school.