Now that you’re married with kids, has your relationship with your husband gone from magical to meh? “In the throes of new love, there’s a real sense of playfulness, spontaneity and thoughtfulness,” says Boston-based dating coach Neely Steinberg. “That sometimes dies out when you are in the thick of mortgage payments and diaper-changing.” Don’t let the romance die; date your husband instead. Two dating and relationship experts offer easy, cheap and even babysitter-free ideas. This spring, it’s time to start fresh.