Sometimes moms need a special treat after a long, hard day, and Benjamin Newby, one of Chicago's most celebrated mixologists, recognizes that. He suggests, every once in a while, after the children are in bed, you "whip out your favorite bottle, a shaker and make yourself a drink that reminds you who you are (and what makes you amazing)." Find yourself a quiet spot, relax and indulge yourself in fantasies, where you are always the heroine. And what cocktail should that incredible protagonist be holding? Choose which personality your heroine most resembles and shake up her expert-chosen cocktail.