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Mom Who Left Newborn for a Date Night Speaks Out Against Haters

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Megan Gale doesn't want to hear your judgmental thoughts about her parenting. The Australian model, actress and mom of two recently left her newborn to go on a dinner date with her fiancé, Shaun Hampson, and returned to negative online comments about the decision. She quickly shut down the hate and defended herself in a way many new moms can relate to.

Gale posted an Instagram photo of her and Hampson on Oct. 6 in the car after "about 10 (minutes) to get ready." The couple was headed to a "quick dinner date" while River, 3, and Rosie, born Sept. 27, were with their grandmothers.

"Missing our babies 😩but SO important for parents to have some couple time when / if they can grab it 😘," she wrote.

megankgale

✨27-9-2017 2.39pm ✨ Hard to believe a week has passed since we welcomed our precious girl into the world and our lives. This photo was taken exactly a week ago while I was enjoying my first cuddle with her. She is yet to be officially named but we're getting close. 💖 @shampson_

Tuns out, the mom ended up getting so much flak from "ignorant, judgmental people" that she felt she had to justify her decision (but not without blocking and deleting all the haters first).

In a later edit to her original post, Gale explained that the hourlong dinner was only three minutes away from the house. (It's not as if she left the kids alone and went on a trip to Europe, which one mom actually did.) Gale left Rosie in her mom's very experienced and capable hands, and that was after Gale had already bathed, dressed, fed and put the newborn—who sleeps for four to five hours before needing to be fed again—down. Like the boss that she is, the celeb mom also had pumped enough milk for two more feeds, just in case.

megankgale

River with his Nanna ✔️ Rosie with her Nonna ✔️ With about 10 mins to get ready my man & I are out for a quick dinner date. Missing our babies 😩but SO important for parents to have some couple time when / if they can grab it 😘 @shampson_ *edit - For sure we have to devote the majority of our time to our kids. However, IF it can be managed well, stealing an hour or two, here and there as a couple or an individual is a "win" for parents. In this instance we had left Rosie with my very experienced and capable Mum after I had bathed, dressed, fed her and put her down plus I'd expressed enough milk for two feeds just in case. At the moment she sleeps for 4-5 hours and then feeds again so we knew we had more than enough time for a 1 hour dinner, which was 3mins from our house. And last night was no exception, she slept 6pm-10.30pm. With River I barely left the house for the first 6 weeks, out of fear, out of guilt and I lost a little part of myself and also developed what I now feel was a mild case of post natal depression. If you've ensured your child is well looked after in your absence, then there is nothing wrong with some alone time as a couple or as an individual. You'll be happier people for it and more importantly, better parents. Oh and to the ignorant, judgemental people projecting negativity on my page, it delights me to inform you that I block and delete instantly. No room for that crap here - this is a place of love & peace ❤️✌🏼Your comments don't upset me, they just make me smile and make you look nasty.

"For sure we have to devote the majority of our time to our kids. However, if it can be managed well, stealing an hour or two, here and there as a couple or an individual is a 'win' for parents," she wrote.

When she was a new mom with her first child, Gale knew how important it was to make some time for herself and for her partner.

"With River, I barely left the house for the first (six) weeks, out of fear, out of guilt and I lost a little part of myself and also developed what I now feel was a mild case of postnatal depression," she confessed.

Postpartum depression affects about 1 in 9 women in the U.S. alone. It can look different for everyone. Maybe you cry more than usual, withdraw from your loved ones and cause a strain on your relationship, or feel that extra dose of guilt because for some reason, you're not enjoying motherhood as much as you're expected to.

As Gale points out, "If you've ensured your child is well looked after in your absence, then there is nothing wrong with some alone time as a couple or as an individual. You'll be happier people for it and more importantly, better parents."

Remember to take care of yourself, mama, because if mom's not happy, nobody's happy.

megankgale

Baby's first hongi 😍 #riverandrosie

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