No matter how many books, magazines, or websites you read, pregnancy is a hectic time. You’ll get a flood of information, and you may feel overwhelmed trying to sort it out. So where do you begin? “Ask questions, and find people you trust so you can surrender and just be without pressure to stage-manage your entire pregnancy and birth,” says L.A.-based ob-gyn Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz. Here are 10 questions and expert answers to get you on the right path.